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Let’s start with a conversation about rejections. When is it okay for a writer quit trying?
The answer is simple: You can quit whenever you’re ready to fail.
I heard a statistic that the average writer will get 5-10 rejections and quit. I have one thing to say to that: Wimp.
Okay, I know that sounds tough, but hear my heart. The truth is, the only way to fail at this writing thing is to quit. The only way to be considered a failure is to walk away and say you’re done. As long as you’re learning, applying, writing, rewriting, learning, applying, writing, and rewriting, you’re doing the work of a writer. In other words, you ARE a writer.
Some of you have heard my story of getting 63–count ’em, 63!–rejections before I ever had anything published. Not one single, solitary thing published in 7 or 8 long years of No.
You better believe I got discouraged. Yes, I wanted to quit. Many times. But no matter how hard I tried, I just couldn’t leave a the journey a quitter. I just couldn’t walk away.
I knew I had something to say, something someone would benefit from. If only I could find someone to publish what I was writing. So I tried almost everything: magazine articles, novels, plays, songs, children’s picture books, and devotions, but everything I wrote received a rejection.
So I kept learning, kept attending conferences, kept going to critique group, kept applying what I’d learned, kept writing and rewriting . . . year after year after year.
And then one day, after years of No, the answer was Yes. I had a contract for an article.
But here’s what I want you to know: I didn’t become a writer with that first published article. I had been a writer through all those years of No. I had been a writer because I didn’t quit.
Now, after all these years of writing, I often wonder how different my life would be if I had quit at 63 rejections. What if I’d never sent the 64th submission? No one would have blamed me, that’s for sure. After all, anybody should have enough sense to quit after all that time.
But some things just don’t make sense from a human point of view. Success comes by perseverance and determination, not by avoiding rejection.
The only way to win is to persevere. And the only way to fail is to quit.
Happy writing!
Vonda
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It’s Time to Share Kudos of YOUR Successes!
Hey there, writing friends. We want to know what you’ve been up to. Have you had something exciting happen recently in your writing or speaking life? Maybe you’ve had an article published, signed a book contract, released a new book, got an agent, or started a new blog. If so, we want to hear from you!



It’s really simple, but I do ask that you contact me with the info in this format and order ONLY:


**Your name
**Your state in two-letter abbreviation
**Link to your website or blog
**Your good news
**Link to your good news, if online (online bookstore, online article, etc)
I can’t wait for us to celebrate with you!
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Who MoGo’d in November? And yes, NaNoWriMo numbers count!
If you wrote at least 7000 new words on a book project in November, you can receive an entry in the drawing for the 2015 MoGo7000 $100 cash prize! It’s open to everyone who qualifies.
To report your November results, please leave a comment below with your total new words written on a book project in November. (Please do not send your totals by email or through the Contact page. Totals must be left as a comment here by next Sunday).
If you missed out on last year’s money-winning writing challenge, don’t worry, the 2015 challenge has one more month. Here are the MoGo7000 Challenge rules. All you have to do is write at least 7000 NEW words on a book project in any month and you’ll receive an entry into the end-of-the-year drawing for $100.
It’s not too late! Get started now and you could have and extra $100 next year. And it doesn’t cost you a cent. 
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