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Interview and Book Give Away with Author and Speaker Dianne Neal Matthews

dianneheadshotWhat a joy to introduce my friend, Dianne Neal Matthews! Dianne has written numerous devotionals, magazine articles, and newspaper features and her work has appeared in Focus on the Family, The Quiet Hour, LIVE, The Christian Communicator, and websites, including CBN.com. She is the author of The One Year On This Day (which won her the 2006 Writer of the Year Award at the Write-to-Publish Conference–Way to go, Dianne!), and The One Year Women of the Bible, both published by Tyndale House. Dianne is a 2006 CLASS graduate and a member of Advanced Writers & Speakers, Christian Authors Network, and Toastmasters. She and her husband, Richard, have three grown children, a son-in-law currently serving in Afghanistan, and a gorgeous granddaughter. For more information, you can reach Dianne at her website.

Now listen, you don't want to miss an opportunity to win Dianne's book, The One Year Women of the Bible–and it's easy! Simply leave a comment for Dianne or me and you'll automatically be in the drawing for your own personalized copy!

Vonda: Okay, I'm excited to get started! Dianne, it seems to me that the Bible includes a lot more stories of men than women. How did you come up with enough topics about women for 365 devotionals?

Dianne: Well, at first there didn't seem to be enough women in the Bible for a one-year devotional, but some of the women gave me enough material for several days. I used groups of women, witnesses to significant events, women in parables, and "invisible" women, like the mother of the little boy who offered his lunch to Jesus.

Vonda: Hey, that was smart! But you also include contemporary stories. Where did you get the ideas for the opening stories about contemporary women?

Dianne: The contemporary stories are mostly based on real-life women that I've womenofbiblecover known, heard of, or read about, usually with the details changed to guard identity. I even got a couple of ideas from reading Dear Abby. I also include some stories that are from my imagination, but hopefully true to life.

Vonda: Yep, nobody's safe with us writers around, are they? Now let's change gears here. What was the most surprising thing you learned from researching and writing this book?

Dianne: I think it's the fact that these women lived so long ago, with lifestyles and circumstances vastly different from our own, and yet they had to deal with the same basic problems, temptations, needs, and struggles that we do today. Today's mothers worry about the safety of their children, especially when a school shooting is in the news. Moses' mother gave birth to him at a time when the Egyptian pharaoh had ordered that all Hebrew newborn boys be drowned. Sometimes we suffer from doing something that is acceptable in society's eyes but not in line with God's will. Sarah's choice to give her maid to Abraham had consequences that affected not just her, but the history of two nations. Leah and Rachel demonstrated the ultimate sibling rivalry by competing to see who could give the most sons to their shared husband.

Women in the Bible endured mistreatment, prejudice, rape, and war. Some of them lied and manipulated others. Many of them struggled with dysfunctional relationships. Human nature hasn't changed since the Fall–and neither has the Answer to our problems.

Vonda: Isn't it wonderful that we can personally know the Answer? Now, as a writer, I'm interested in knowing if the experience of writing this book changed you in any way.

Dianne: Actually, I think the process changed how I relate to the people in the Bible. Once I looked at these women from the perspective of my own experiences and emotions, they became more real to me. Before, I found it easy to relate individual verses or passages to my life, but the people in the Bible seemed distant and sometimes unreal. Not anymore–now I see these women as flesh-and-blood people I'd like to meet and have a chat with over a bowl of figs and dates.

Vonda: Or maybe Starbucks? 😉 So, would you say the experience changed your perception of God?

Dianne: Yes, I would. It opened my eyes to the way God sees women. Before God formed Eve, He announced His intention to make a "helper" for Adam. That always sounded like a secondary role to me, until I discovered that the same term is used to refer to God in a number of verses, including Psalm 70:5.

biblewomenGod made woman as the final touch that completed His creation. In the Old Testament, God entrusted women with key roles to carry out His work. In the New Testament, Jesus elevated women in ways that shocked a culture where the men thanked God in prayer that they were not born as women.

Now I have a new appreciation for how highly God values women and how He shapes us in unique ways to carry out His purposes.

Vonda: I'm so glad to hear you say that! Ever since I studied the interactions between Jesus and women, I've felt Jesus had a special place in His heart for us women. He did go against culture and tradition by standing us for us, even against powerful men. What a precious Savior!

But with all the struggles we women deal with, is there one overall message that you hope women take away from this book?

Dianne: There sure is, and that message is found in the very last devotional of the book. I open with a story of an anxious bride starting down the aisle. When she looks at her groom, she sees a reflection of her beauty in his eyes and his intense longing to claim her as his own.

That scenario gives a taste of how God looks at us. He loves us just the way we are, even though we don't see ourselves as desirable, and even when our culture thinks we don't measure up. And He can't wait to claim us as His own for all eternity.

Vonda: What a beautiful thought! And one last question. What do you find most rewarding about  writing devotionals?

Dianne: Writing devotionals keeps me excited about how fresh and relevant God's Word is. I love finding ways to illustrate Scriptures and draw out practical applications. And feedback from readers motivates me to keep writing. It's such a blessing when someone tells me that a devotional has spoken to their specific situation, or says that one of my books is a part of their regular quiet time. Just last week a woman in Australia emailed to say how amazed she is that the pages of The One Year Women of the Bible often mirror what's going on in her own life. Comments like that remind me what a privilege this is.

Vonda: Yes, we must remember that–writing is such a privilege. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

Now readers, I know you want a copy of this book, so just go ahead and write a quick comment. Someone
is going to win, and it might as well be you! To learn more about Dianne, her books, and her ministry, be sure to check out her website.

Don't forget to check back next week to see who the winner is!

(Photo of women courtesy of )

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And now, as we face a new week, let's be reminded that followers of Jesus were never promised an easy life:

Then Jesus said to his disciples, "If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me." Matthew 16:24

I pray God's blessing on the work of your hands and your hearts,
Vonda

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Compilations–A Viable Path on the Road to Publication

Not long after my first children’s book (Bitsy and the Mystery at Tybee Island )bitsy_tybee_cover_100px came out, I had the opportunity to submit to a compilation, Mystery Readers Journal: Religious Mysteries. (And just so you know, the words “Religious” and “Christian” are not synonymous!)

I had no idea what I was doing. All I knew was they were looking for writers of “religious” mysteries to share something of interest with mystery readers. Surely I had something of interest to say! So I wrote a piece, “Teaching Truth through Fiction,” and talked about the fact that we can teach Biblical and moral truth without preaching. I was thrilled when they accepted my article. And even though I didn’t get paid for it, it was still a good investment. Not only was it an opportunity to introduce mystery readers to my book, but the publication also gave me another writing credit. On top of that, “Teaching Biblical Truth through Secular Fiction” is now one of my most popular classes at writer’s conferences.

embrace_cover_100px A few years later, I read of a call for submissions on stories about fathers. Being a card-carrying Daddy’s girl, I jumped at the chance to submit. What a joy to receive the acceptance letter and offer of a contract to be published in Embrace of a Father…and this time I actually got paid!

Compilations, also called anthologies, are a great way to gather some publishing credits and collect a little money along the way. Several of our readers have found quite a bit of success in this area of publishing, and many of the leads have come through the “Opportunities” list posted here the third Tuesday of every month.

Here are some things you need to know if this area of writing and publishing sounds like something you might want to consider:

  • Read the guidelines and follow the directions carefully regarding formatting, word count, etc.
  • Check the address for submission. It’s not always the same as the email of the contact person.
  • Be sure your story meets the topic guidelines. Don’t waste your time–or the editor’s–with pieces that just don’t fit.
  • Be sure you understand the rights you are giving. Many compilations allow you to keep your rights and use it again in the future, but a work-for-hire contract means you will not have any rights to the story after they accept it.
  • Find out if you’re able to purchase copies at a discount for resale. You can often purchase copies for about half price, allowing you to make a good profit on books you sell. Even after discounting the price to my friends and family and including free shipping, I still made almost $300 profit from the first batch of Embrace of a Father I sold. And even though the book is now out of print, I still have copies available and continue to sell them.
  • Even if you don’t receive financial compensation, reputable publishers usually at least give you a complimentary copy of the book.
  • Keep good records. It can take years for books to finally land on the bookshelves and you could forget you even submitted the story!
  • Some books use “seed stories” where the author or editor uses the gist of your story, rather than printing your actual words. In that case, you should receive an acknowledgement (usually in the back of the book), but most likely won’t be listed as the author of the story.

So, does this sound like something you’d like to do? If so, you’ll want to follow these links to publishers who may be looking for you!

  1. Chicken Soup
  2. Cup of Comfort
  3. The Ultimate Series

And, if that’s not enough to keep you busy, be sure to visit Anthology News and Reviews Blog for lots of information on calls for submissions.

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More opportunities for you…

  1. Cheryl Barker is open to submissions for her newsletter, LifeNotes. For more information, contact Cheryl at .
  2. Christian Devotions is always interested in hearing from writers.
  3. Terri Kelly is looking for guest writers. You can reach her by leaving a comment at her blog, or contact her at .

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And now, the winner of the cliche-buster contest is (drumroll, please!)…
Cynthia!! Since no one in my family likes fruitcake (except me), Cynthia’s entry, “hard as last year’s fruitcake,” garnered their attention. I’m not sure which Cynthia this is, so be sure to email me, and you’ll win an autographed copy of one of my books!
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I’m sure I’m not the only one who has been struggling lately. I hope these words encourage you today, as they have encouraged me:

I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. Romans 8:18

I pray God’s blessing on the work or your hands and your hearts,

Vonda

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Is Your Writing Flat as a Pancake?

Do you feel like you're caught between a rock and a hard place when it comes to your writing? Are you looking for a way to write outside the box? Are the editors as mean as snakes when it comes to their rejections? Learn to recognize overworked cliches…and soon you'll be whistling a new tune!

So what qualifies as a cliché? Dictionary.com says a cliche is:

  • a trite, stereotyped expression; a sentence or phrase, usually expressing a popular or common thought or idea, that has lost originality, ingenuity, and impact by long overuse, as sadder but wiser, or strong as an ox.  
  • a trite or hackneyed plot, character development, use of color, musical expression, etc.  
  • anything that has become trite or commonplace through overuse.

weights_smallOkay, I'm going to be blunt here: Writing in clichés (also called dimwitticisms) is the lazy-man's way to write. After all, it's easier to use clichés than to look for a more accurate, more vigorous word or description. Kinda like trying to bolster weak, wimpy verbs by adding adverbs instead of taking the time to find a powerful verb to deliver the punch you're looking for. Be sure to check out my blog entry, Don't Wimp Out on Good Writing.                                     (image: )

Of course, sometimes we purposely use clichés for titles or we place emphasis on the cliché itself through a play on words:

  • God Uses Cracked Pots, Patsy Clairmont
  • Hand Over the Chocolate and No One Will Get Hurt, Karen Linamen
  • The Grass is Always Greener Over the Septic Tank, Erma Bombeck

So, do your passages contain bright wit or dim-witticism? Think you can improve common sayings? Participate in this little practice exercise and you could win a free book! Simply come up with an alternative to your choice of the following overworked phrases and post them in a comment below (include as many as you want for more chances to win). My unbiased family will select the best entry and the winner will win his or her choice of one of my  books. Ready to show your stuff? I can't wait to see what you can do with these:

a bad penny
a beehive of activity
like a big weight had been lifted off my shoulders
flat as a pancake
mean as a snake
like beating a dead horse
hard as a rock
in the wrong place at the wrong time
jumping with joy

So, what are you waiting for? Let's have some fun. Show us your best stuff–and you could win! 🙂
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Kudos to…

  1. Cheryl Barker (KS) for another card with Blue Mountain Arts! "For My Amazing Mom" will be released later this month in time for Mother's Day. Congratulations, Cheryl! Hey, wouldn't it be great to give your mom a card written by one of your friends?
  2. Andrea Merrell (SC) is now a regular writer with Christian Devotions and her entries will be posted at least every other week. Way to go, Andrea!
  3. Terri Kelly (NC) also has another devotional posted today at Christian Devotions. Congrats, Terri! And Terri now has her own blog targeting educators, homeschoolers, writers, mothers, and women. Be sure to check it out.
  4. Jo Rae Johnson (SC) is now a Thomas Nelson blogger. Check out her first book review here. Kudos, Jo Rae!

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Another Give-Away!

Cheryl Barker is running a Valentine's Day give-away at her blog. Hop on over and leave a message for the February 1 blog entry and you could win movie tickets for two! But you've got to act fast–the deadline is Wednesday, February 11.
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As we face this new week, let's focus on this life-changing scripture from Corinthians:

So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
1 Corinthians 10:31

I pray God's blessing on the work of your hands and your hearts,
Vonda

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Encouraging Words

I love to sing. I admit, I'm not all that good at it-certainly not recording artist material-but I love it. You should hear me in the car when I'm all alone and the music is turned up loud. I sing with abandon, and praise God with my whole heart. I know He thinks my voice is beautiful!

But it's a different story when I'm in front of the church. I want to sing with abandon, I want to praise God with my whole heart. But instead, my throat tightens, my voice trembles. And even though I know I shouldn't, I remember the day they laughed.

grabbinghandsIt was years ago, my first attempt at singing a solo in a previous church. The older couple sat on the front row, arms crossed and brows furrowed. Why did I continue to look at them? Why didn't I zoom in on the faces of my precious family, smiling at me from the third row?

My heart pounded as the song began. My voice-clear and strong in the car-came out weak and unsure onstage. And then the moment came. The one I had dreaded since I stepped up to the podium. The high note squeaked out . . . off-key.

My eyes went straight to the couple, hoping for grace and acceptance. The husband elbowed his wife. She rolled her eyes, crinkled her mouth into a smirk, and shook her head.

I had specifically chosen that song to minister to our body. Our church was at a crossroad, and the words were just what we needed to hear-a message of hope and confidence in the power of God. But instead of encouraging the people, I had caused them to laugh.

Yes, it was only one couple. But they are the ones I remember. Their response is the one that's indelibly printed on my mind.

I still sing, and I love it, but oh, how I want to be able to sing onstage with abandon, like I do when it's just God and me in the car with the music turned up loud.

That experience reminds me to support and lift others up, even though they may not be the best soloist or the best Sunday School teacher or the best preacher I've ever heard. Ephesians 4:29 tells us to build up others, according to their needs.

Satan is the author of destructive criticism. Let's look for opportunities to minister to each other through the gift of encouragement.

For writers, our opportunity to encourage is in the critique process. New writers are often sensitive to negative feedback. And although they must hear the negative in order to learn the process of writing well, we can make it more palatable by sandwiching suggestions between compliments. Even if the manuscript is rough and needs lots of work, we can take the extra time to find something good. If we look for it, there will be something positive we can say. 

Writers, let's commit to being wise stewards of our words. Let's ask God to guard our mouths and give us discernment as we help each other through the process. Yes, there will be negative comments that must be said. Yes, there will be changes that must be made. But let's not be like the couple on the front row, crossing our arms and laughing.

We can be the difference between helping someone sing on the page with abandon or causing them to tremble at their computer with fear. It's all in the delivery and the heart. 

(Photo compliments of )

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We Need Kudos!

Speaking of encouraging words, your successes can be encouragement to other writers. If you've received a contract, had a book, article, devotional, or any other publishing credit, or any other writing/speaking news to share, please email me this week with the details (your name, your state, and your news). We'd love to celebrate with you next week!

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And the winner is…

Abi! Abi, be sure to email me with your mailing address and Linda Rooks will send you an autographed copy of her new book, Broken Heart on Hold, Surviving Separation. 

And readers, I know from your emails that you'll want a copy of this book, either for yourselves or for others. I wish we had one for everybody. But since we don't, please take the time to order your copy here. This is a book that could change your life, your marriage, or the marriage of someone else. This book is too important to pass up. Thank you, Linda, for writing it and for sharing it with us.

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And now, I leave you with these encouraging words from Paul:

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29

I pray God's blessing on the work of your hands and your hearts,

Vonda

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